Go beyond flowers and chocolates this Mother’s Day and show your appreciation in a special way. This year, give Mom the practical and thoughtful gift of a DIY oil change! A DIY oil change for your mom saves money and shows you care about her safety, schedule, and vehicle. And, if your mom isn’t one for surprises, especially when it comes to her vehicle (or if she likes to pop the hood herself,) it can be a great way to spend a little quality time together. Here’s how to flawlessly change the oil in your mom’s car this Mother’s Day.
Choosing the Right Oil and Filter
Before you start, check the owner’s manual of the vehicle (or search online with the car’s make, model, and year) to find the correct oil type. You’ll usually find the correct oil type and filter size listed by weight (like 5W-30). No guesswork allowed here. Mom’s engine deserves the right match.
Tip: Although synthetic oils may be more expensive than conventional oils, they provide superior protection and have a longer lifespan. The upgrade is worthwhile for Mom. Ensure you use a quality oil filter and get a fresh crush washer for the drain plug if needed.
Prep Your Work Area
Use a flat, level surface like your garage to work on, and prepare your tools in advance:
To prevent spills from spreading, place an old towel or cardboard under your vehicle. Show Mom you’re as thoughtful as you are handy by keeping a clean workspace, which is especially important if you’re working out of Mom’s driveway or garage.
Drain the Old Oil
Allow the engine to run for about five minutes to warm up the oil before you begin. This improves oil flow. Next, switch off the engine and open the hood.
First, locate the oil cap on the engine and remove it. This will speed up oil drainage. You can then slide under the car, put the pan under where the oil is drained, and carefully remove the bolt. Let the oil drain completely. This usually takes between 5 and 10 minutes.
Tip: While draining the oil, use the opportunity to clean any dust under the hood. That extra effort and neat finish won’t go unnoticed by Mom.
Swap the Oil Filter
Remove the old filter using the oil filter wrench. Some oil is bound to spill, so be sure to keep the pan underneath. Before installing the new filter, dip your finger in fresh oil and rub a little bit around the rubber gasket on the filter. This will help to seal the new filter properly. Screw on the new filter by hand until snug, making sure not to over–tighten.
Refill and Refresh
Place the oil drain bolt back in (with a new crush washer, if necessary) and pour the new oil in through the funnel. After one minute, verify that the dipstick reading is within the acceptable range. Add more oil as needed, then let the engine run for one minute. Inspect for leaks; then, after the oil settles, check its level again.
Clean and Cap It Off
Finish by wiping spills, closing the hood, and adding two small touches Mom will appreciate.
- Next oil change sticker: Note mileage and date for next oil change, then place the sticker on the windshield.
- Service note: For an extra-special Mother’s Day surprise, include a loving handwritten note in Mom’s car, e.g., “Oil changed with love. Happy Mother’s Day.”
Small Job, Big Gesture
Giving Mom a DIY oil change isn’t just a service: It’s a considerate gift for safe and smooth travels. The attention to detail, fresh filter, clean engine, and the time you spent caring for something she uses daily will impress her. This Mother’s Day, show your love by touching up her vehicle with a wrench, some fresh oil, and a little under-the-hood sparkle.